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Open-ended: A Space for Real Talk (Series)


Dear Reader,

This post isn’t filled with tips, tricks, or how-tos. Instead, it’s a quieter reflection—different from the others I’ve shared so far. It’s a grounding moment, so bear with me as I unpack what’s been on my mind these past few months.

For the first time since I began blogging, I missed a scheduled post. And no, what you’re reading now isn’t the one I had originally planned. It wasn’t intentional—life simply got in the way. I’ve tried to reframe that missed post as a much-needed break. Still, I’ll be honest: part of me feels like I should’ve been better prepared. What seems like a small, even insignificant slip has ended up offering something unexpected—a chance to re-evaluate my approach to writing.


As a creative, writing has always come naturally to me. It often flows with ease. When I first began taking it seriously, I was passionate—overflowing with ideas I believed were worth sharing. While that still holds true, I’ve recently noticed moments when my creative energy feels stubborn and stagnant. I don’t know if I’d call it writer’s block—it feels heavier than that. I’m talking about those times when functioning feels almost impossible. When my head is crowded, my heart is full, and yet... I can’t get anything of value out. These days come more often than I’d like to admit. I find myself asking, “Why am I not present?” And reader, I think I’ve figured it out: I’m deeply depleted—not so much physically, but in every other way. Maybe what I’m facing is something we often brush off or normalize—burnout.


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It’s become a cycle—battling that voice in my head that equates rest with failure. I feel like I should always be producing, even when getting out of bed feels like moving a mountain. I know rest is important, I do. But guilt creeps in every time I lean into it. I’m working through that though—slowly. Right now, the only way I see forward is to ease into whatever each day brings—missed deadlines, doubt, missteps and all. I’m learning to move at the pace of grace, to show up however I can. For now, that means shifting to a monthly posting schedule instead of bi-weeks. It’s a small change that gives me the mental space to write with more intention. And truly, it’s not just about creativity—it’s about care, for myself, and for the words I offer to you.


This decision is also connected to deeper shifts happening in my life—something I’ll be exploring in another emerging series titled Reconstructing Spirituality. But for now, Open-Ended: A Space for Real Talk — is where we begin. Unlike my usual posts, this series won’t follow a set structure. It’s raw, reflective, and deeply personal—rooted in honest introspection. If holistic lifestyle content—from spirituality to personal growth—resonates with you, I invite you to subscribe and become part of this growing community.


If you’re new here, reader, this blog was created to unearth truths, explore balance, and reflect on life’s lessons in real time. I try to take something meaningful from every experience—and in keeping with my promise of transparency and authenticity, it felt only right to share this moment with you. No fluff. No thrills. No tidy solutions. Just a needed pulse check—a quiet reckoning with where I am. Even when every fibre of our being resists it, these moments are part of the journey too. I don’t have all the answers—or any kind of expert formula—and I won’t pretend to. We’re all learning. And the path? It’s far from linear.


With grace,


🌿



Smiling black woman with locs amidst plants at a lively event, wearing a patterned dress. Bright lighting and a joyful atmosphere.

As an author and seeker, I’m passionate about the ever-evolving journey of self-discovery. Through my writing, I share lessons, experiences and reflections on growth and transformation—inviting others to explore along the way.


Here’s to striking the balance, unearthing truth and embracing the authentic self.

Let's Evolve Together.


Jebu Vivet

Founder of E.I.R.E.

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